If you would have asked me 5 years prior to my first divorce would I be able to fall in love with someone/want to get married; I would have told you hell to the NO. The level of damage that was done to my sons and I made the idea of trusting another woman impossible.
But, as luck would have it, another someone, who was going through her own hell and was looking for a man that would unconditionally love and protect her.
It was PURE luck that we met, odds were a billion to one, but we did meet. As our thoughts and feelings co-mingled more and more we announced to the world that we were a couple.
While I will expand more on this, I wanted to share that it is possible to be happy.